Feature: Parenting From a Place of Grace

IMG_5235I had the distinct pleasure of writing a post for Bougiemama.com.  This site is special.  It’s a place that highlights women of color bloggers and focuses on five key areas: parenting, wellness, style and beauty, and prosperity.  I’m all about all of these things!    Enjoy…

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Insulin Pumps, Illness, and Waiting

Every three months we go to the endocrinologist (the Endo). The appointments are long.  Anabel kind of dreads them.  Okay, she really really dreads them.  We review numbers, discuss questions, and re-up on prescriptions.  It ends and we wait for the next appointment.  However, one commonality of every appointment is a commendation we receive from our practitioner about how well her T1D is being managed, whether when dosing insulin with shots or, more recently, with an insulin pump.  We had the routine on lock!  That is, until illness enters the equation. Continue reading “Insulin Pumps, Illness, and Waiting”

Low Carb Egg Snack Recipe

Over time I’ve realized you’re either an egg person or not. You like these golden white wonders or you don’t. You can scramble, fry, and boil these beauties. Anabel is an egg person. Please note- I am not one of these egg people. I make them in baking, for my sweet one, and for nostalgia in my grandmother’s memory. She too, like Anabel (her namesake) was an egg person. She had an amazing deviled egg recipe that she made on holidays. Continue reading “Low Carb Egg Snack Recipe”

The Comfort A Friend Provides

We carry with us, as human beings, not just the capacity to be kind, but the very choice of kindness.” -R.J. Palcio, Wonder

I saw something I hadn’t seen since Anabel was diagnosed. I took her and her friend (I call them A squared) to see a movie. Once we settled in with their snacks she comfortably took her insulin pump out of its belt in front of someone other than her family. She plugged her stats in and let it just hang out for a while. After completing her bolus she told her friend a joke, they both laughed together and she tucked her pump away.  Continue reading “The Comfort A Friend Provides”

Holiday Cookie Mania Hack

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One of our family traditions includes baking holiday goodies, especially cookies when we are all together with our extended family.  My sweet one loves to bake and enjoys learning in the kitchen.  Anabel is awesome with numbers, ratios and the like so baking is her jam.  What is not our jam, however, is guessing at the carb tallies for these sweet treats.  It can turn into an entire family dialogue.  I yell over to my sister, “Hey, how many carbs do you think is in one of your cookies?”.  She looks over at me with a bewildered side-eye and says, “I have no idea!”  I give her a side eye back and respond, “Well, how much flour did you use and how many cookies did it make?”  She takes out her phone, finds the recipe and from there it goes.  Continue reading “Holiday Cookie Mania Hack”

A Sweet Book Review: ‘Maggie’s Mystery’

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Sharing stories are one way that children can learn about themselves and the world around them. I’m a major advocate for representation in children’s literature, whether it’s their race or nationality, gender, interests or unique characteristics being represented. I think it’s important to have a range of literature that illustrate a diverse body of people. When it comes to my sweet one I want her to read great books with strong protagonists, women of color and great stories about people living with diabetes. I intently search for these books, sometimes having better luck than others. Continue reading “A Sweet Book Review: ‘Maggie’s Mystery’”